Friday, July 16, 2010

"Is it a break-up?"

July 16th,

I'm never short of words when it comes to my favourite topic.."love". well, i dont have a long experience in this "field", but whatever i have is enough to write. By the way, whatever i am sharing is not personal. only sometimes i get a vaccination of blabbering. lolz.

Well, in a relation of about more than a year, u never think abt breakups or something. Its always like, u have a fight and then one of the both will try to convince the other. Its quite natural and its the same case in most of the relations all around the universe. Of course at times u have a feeling that it cud have been better if u had taken a better decision before. Maybe u cud have found a better partner. Maybe life cud have been happier. And u end up deciding that finally both shud get separated. i.e; finally a BREAK UP.

But everybody know it lasts for just a day. sometimes just for few hours. And sometimes just for few minutes. Love is always the same. It knows no jealousy, no ego issues, no hatred.
It is simply love.

But what happens when we start looking for our future. Everything was fine till now. Now what made us think like a mature person. I never thought like this before until today.
What will happen if we couldn't get together in future. What will happen if Parents didn't agreed to our relation. And a time comes, when every answer seems fading. All doors seems to be closed.
Everyone seems to be running away. Ultimately, we are left with two choices. Listen to ur heart, or listen to ur mind. 90% people listen to their minds, and only 10% have the courage to live their life whole heartedly.
But actually the best decision is to think wisely. About everyone around you. About everything that is going to be affected after any wrong decision. And the answer is to SACRIFICE love for everything. And thats the end of every relation in most of the cases. But is it really a BREAK UP? The answer is NO. The actual definition of LOVE is Sacrifice. One who has sacrificed all his desires for the sake of love, has realized the meaning of love. The world will never estimate his worth, but there will come a day, when he will get his reward. Love never dies, love never loses. Love is the only thing in this world who can WIN by LOSING.


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  2. Wl sd Charlie.. lk d dpth f it.
    its realy vry true n shal i say disturbin (or) as u sd 'SACRIFICIAL' part of 1's lF bt thts d 'TRUE LF'..

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  3. Thanks shilpam. wrote my heart down over there! :)

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