10 True Facts about Love

Again and Again we realise that we are running away from something. But never try to find out the reason why are we running away. The strangest but very true facts which i found to be real in life, I just wanted to share with you all. Atleast at some point u'll realise, that's there the same human soul in all of us. We just pretend to be different.

1. "You don't realize how much you care about someone until they don't care about you."

How many of us know that this is true? We always want things we can't have. When we have them we take them for granted and not notice that they are there. But when they are gone we feel like a big part of our life has disappeared. One we kind of liked!

2. "You've never felt pain until you've felt love."

There are varying types of pain in life. The pain you get when you have a cut or bruise right up to the pain you feel when your heart has been shredded to pieces. Whoever you have lost and in what way that pain is the worst type of pain that you can experience. But if the love was not there then that pain would not have existed.

3. "If I hadn't met you, I wouldn't like you. If I hadn't liked you, I wouldn't love you. If I wouldn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do and I will."

Pretty simple one to understand. If you hadn't have met you wouldn't have fallen in love and feel hurt now. But on the positive side if you didn't meet them where would you be now. There's always someone else you can meet and fall in love with around every corner.

4. "I can't talk to you anymore, it's not that I am mad at you, it's just that when I talk to you I realize how much I love you and when I realize how much I love you, I realize I can't have you and that makes me love you even more."

This is really the best advice as staying away from you ex can help you in many ways. First it gives you a chance to cool down and work out your feelings and secondly meeting up with them will only make you feel worse and may lead to harsh words being said or pushing them away even further.

5. "I'm not supposed to love you, I'm not supposed to care, I'm not supposed to live my life wishing you were there. I'm not supposed to wonder where you are or what you're doing, but I can't help it, cause I'm in love with you."

You can't just switch your love off. Depending on the reason that your relationship ended your ex may have been thinking about it for a while and has had time to adjust before even ending the relationship. If you didn't see it coming the hurt is even stronger and your love cannot just end. It will take time but try to introduce more things in your life so you don't have time to think about what they are doing and with whom and you may soon start to wonder why you even cared in the first place!

6. "Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew."

But yes, forgetting is going to be hard. There's no button you can press to turn your love off. It may take some time. But as this quote seems to suggest it may seem impossible at the moment. Depending on the choices you make this may always be so but no one wants to live in the past so you must start to rebuild your life however much you may not want to.

7. "Nothing hurts more than realizing they meant everything to you, but you meant nothing to them."

This is another one that we can all relate to. When a relationship finishes you are the one that realises how much your ex means to you whilst they are realising how much you don't mean to them. It is not an easy situation and the only positive thing you can do it either move on and forget about them or turn the situation around and make them realise exactly what they are missing out on!

8. "The pain of having a broken heart is not so much as to kill you, yet not so little as to let you live."

Your broken heart will not kill you but it is painful enough for you to believe that will. During these times it is important for you to keep believing that it won't always be like this and however hard it may seem at these times it WILL get better.

9. "Sometimes you think you've gotten over a person, but when you see them smile you suddenly realize you're just pretending you're over them to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours."

This is a good reason to distance yourself from your ex until you feel like you are truly over them. Seeing them again so soon, especially if they have moved on, can be especially painful and bring everything flooding back. /so if possible try to keep away until you feel like you have moved on and are in a place where their life won't affect you.

10. "Missing you isn't the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart."

You may miss them but knowing that you were with them and never will be again is going to take some coming to terms with.

"Is it a break-up?"

July 16th,

I'm never short of words when it comes to my favourite topic.."love". well, i dont have a long experience in this "field", but whatever i have is enough to write. By the way, whatever i am sharing is not personal. only sometimes i get a vaccination of blabbering. lolz.

Well, in a relation of about more than a year, u never think abt breakups or something. Its always like, u have a fight and then one of the both will try to convince the other. Its quite natural and its the same case in most of the relations all around the universe. Of course at times u have a feeling that it cud have been better if u had taken a better decision before. Maybe u cud have found a better partner. Maybe life cud have been happier. And u end up deciding that finally both shud get separated. i.e; finally a BREAK UP.

But everybody know it lasts for just a day. sometimes just for few hours. And sometimes just for few minutes. Love is always the same. It knows no jealousy, no ego issues, no hatred.

It is simply love.

But what happens when we start looking for our future. Everything was fine till now. Now what made us think like a mature person. I never thought like this before until today.

What will happen if we couldn't get together in future. What will happen if Parents didn't agreed to our relation. And a time comes, when every answer seems fading. All doors seems to be closed.

Everyone seems to be running away. Ultimately, we are left with two choices. Listen to ur heart, or listen to ur mind. 90% people listen to their minds, and only 10% have the courage to live their life whole heartedly.

But actually the best decision is to think wisely. About everyone around you. About everything that is going to be affected after any wrong decision. And the answer is to SACRIFICE love for everything. And thats the end of every relation in most of the cases. But is it really a BREAK UP? The answer is NO. The actual definition of LOVE is Sacrifice. One who has sacrificed all his desires for the sake of love, has realized the meaning of love. The world will never estimate his worth, but there will come a day, when he will get his reward. Love never dies, love never loses. Love is the only thing in this world who can WIN by LOSING.

What a disgrace!!

March 27th,

I woke up this morning a bit late...(as it was a holiday for me..lolz). And for the first time in my life,i got stucked to the front page of the newspaper without moving directly to the sports page.
and i came across the most disgusting news i heard in my life.
"A BOY KILLED HIS PARENTS FOR MONEY"
The news may seem ordinary..but just imagine once..what does it really means.
The whole thing was written in such a manner that it took me on nerves..
I could never imagine how a child, whose parents fulfilled his every dream, could give them such a surprise!!
I very well understand how it feels living away from home. And the love i have for me parents forced me to think about this.
I do question myself..Is there any relation left in this world that can be trusted??

But how can someone think like this??
The news reports the boy was involved in wrong society. Obviously it demands money!
Wasn't there any other way to get money from any other source..or the only option left was to kill his parents,get thei money and..???
Can he live with peace that he owes the "murder" of his parents.
Now the people are more practical..they dont fear god.
But atleast fear yourself!!
Nobody is going to question you what you did in your life about what u did in ur whole life..
But can u answer ur own soul??
The question will remain unanswered.

My only wish is no parent should get such children!!
Its really a disgrace!